secrets.

secrets. we all have them. some big ones. some not so big ones.

but why exactly are they secret? is it actually because you don't want anyone to know, or the fact that you don't have to courage to express it.

people keep secrets, as it is something for themselves, and maybe the people they really trust to share with. a lot of the times, they are kept locked away, because of the consequences and repercussions that would follow. some may be acts of selfishness, whilst others may be somewhat noble. whilst most people say that sharing helps you unload and take the insurmountable stress and pressure off you, there are times where it can do more damage than good.

at times, you may as well shut up about certain things, and keep them to yourself, as being open about it would only cause more people to be upset, annoyed, frustrated etc. may as well have one person suffering as opposed to a whole bunch. another reason to learn when to shut up about these things is when someone does tell you somethings, and it becomes front page news, when they've personally confided in you. secrets are called secrets for a reason.