Monday, September 13, 2010

struggle.



Do we always have to end up on top? Is winning everything? In some cases yes, but in others, no.

In society, people are constantly competing against one another, fighting over rivalries, showing off who is better, and hoping that they are the best, that they stand out. Whilst you see some people in such light upon a pedestal, there are those that are often forgotten. Those that worked hard. Those that struggled. Those that could not make the distance.

Many people who put in the effort, may not always produce the results they want. Whilst you see some people with the natural talent, for those lacking it, much time is spent on practice behind closed doors in the hope to achieve what they actually want. It is often apparent to see who is struggling. We've all been there before. Seeing everyone surpass you when you feel you're the one that should be leading the pack. In a way, it is similar to the "kicking you when you're down" analogy. You've put in the effort but you don't see the result. The setback has pushed you down to the ground. As you see everyone walk pass you feel a sense of disappointment, a sense of uselessness, and a sense of failure. The struggle to get back up is hard, and as you raise your hand, hoping someone realises and helps you back up, you realise the only way to get back up is to rely on yourself, to bounce back stronger.

It is the struggle before the success that is the achievement. People who struggle, often find it hard to confide in people. They are too embarrassed to ask for help, or in some cases, are too stubborn to. And it is because of this, that many underachievers, underdogs, and those that get underestimated, work harder by themselves, ignore all help, just to prove a point.

But what about those who struggle and never achieve what they deserve? What about those who struggle, and have voices that are never heard? Sometimes they are noticed, but often just left alone. Most people often disregard, pretend not to see, and do not offer help. They decide to save themselves the hassle. But does it really hurt to help those that struggle? Just something small, something simple, it suffices. A simple word of encouragement, a simple 'are you okay' can make all the difference.

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